2012年5月31日木曜日

Communication in the home environment


Environment and must have appropriate training

Developing the competence and appropriate to hear everyone is
Problem does not necessarily rising to the point,
Innate ability to go to develop properly,
You must have the proper environment and training.
Speaking, and even the ability to swim,
People are born with the ability to swim anyone.
Do it put the baby in the water,
I'll swim hard.
However, we continue to live among,
Some people do not cry no longer swim.
It is a problem of the environment.


If it contains in the water on a regular basis
Ability to swim but it is maintained,
Wear, such as the breaststroke swimming style crawl, the
You need a training absolutely.

Is the same for listening,
The ability to hear everyone is born with,
Expressed as a real force,
Higher level to the most
To continue to developmental,
I need a proper environment and training.

Communication in the home environment

The development of force children to grow up listening
Have a decisive influence.
Most importantly, in the home
There is a communication environment.
Parent from the time of the baby is a child,
Rich and their children as much as possible
It is important that the communication exchange.
Nakaniwa, baby is still the word
Because parents do not know, most do not speak
It can be said clearly that mistake.
Baby, heard the words speak of adults who
I will continue to learn,
Actually hear the power given the opportunity to hear
It will be developed to use.


In addition, the communication in the home
As the environment, Do not forget,
The parent is to be a (model) model.
Model is that the parent,
Children will listen to people if people listen to parents,
Children will not listen to people if people do not hear a parent
Potential will be high.
Their parents, the act of listening
If the practice on a daily basis,
To only the behavior of children as well
You can give.
Children in the body in the skin, so to speak Kanjitori
I can remember.

Management's fate does not hear


Management's fate does not hear

One of the important qualities of a good as a manager,
Be equipped with the power to hear rich.

What comes to mind is devoid of qualities as a manager,
Who is the so-called one-man management.

And one-man management, the
Employees who earnestly to let their thoughts,
Who is the story of our management employees will not listen.
Management, but also holds management like this,
It is only during a limited period of time.
After all, to sell it without a brain of one man
As long as there is, according to the changes in the world
It is extremely difficult to cope.
About one-man management,
Way of thinking and the way it
From specification and adherence,
Is Naonokoto.


Owner a certain well known in the world as one-man management, the
From time to time to fall into serious financial difficulties, to retire to take responsibility,
"All I was wrong,
However, I should have said so Crelle someone ..... "
Leaving those words and that.
This is clearly
Is self-contradictory sad scandalous.

Failure to hear is, these also lead to the loss.

Not limited to business owners,
Also the leader of any organization and collective
Will apply and you should expect.

Karaoke in Japanese society
Phenomenon has been firmly established,
However,
Karaoke has become one mind.
It is that people do not hear much.
Someone is around to singing
Have not heard most often.
People just want to sing,
Some people I do not want to hear.
In other words, people just want to send
It is not much people trying to receive.
This as a formal, karaoke place called the phenomenon.
This phenomenon,
More than one person in the scene to interact linguistic,
Often seen.


Speaking metaphorically, the day-to-day conversation with several people.
Just people they want to talk,
Others do not hear much talk of everyone,
If you do not want to be trying to listen.
Listening is listening,
Just to keep holding down the flow of conversation,
Are targeting every miss the love and speak their own.
But sometimes people are talking
Talk it out to block the.
Indeed, in conversation and karaoke phenomenon
Do not say it.
However, the quality of communication and this would happen
Is ruined.
And communication,
For the first time in the presence of sender and receiver
Because they are true,
If it were not received,
Equal to shout toward the empty space alone trees.

Failure loss of [hear] will bring


Can hear a variety of rewards.

3, good ties with the people to become
In human relations,
Not only speak to each other,
The relationships that listen to
The good thing to me.
Among other things, such as relationships with friends
The case of intimate relationship, listening is important.
In life,
Heard about a friend who listened,
Precious things that might not.

4, good family relationships become
Great talking to your family,
Listen. Hear and speak.
And home is what you want such a place.
In the home, such as conflict and opposition
It is the negative side,
Or a natural thing,
Even hear the story of the other party to each other properly,
If you keep this, the relationship between the family
That the crack that is entering or should not.


5, in the rich life
I mean this, and came out quite large,
There is a vague expression,
One of the most basic desire of human beings we are,
May be understood to understand.
In life, to become the biggest support
There is the presence of anyone who will listen seriously, and that their
Can be a good understanding of themselves,
You can also feel like a I have been understood.
When he and his one man also valuable
You can feel.


Failure loss of [hear] will bring

Not listen to people.
Alternatively, you can listen but to hear,
Do not listen properly.
The failure of hearing, said:,
Not only just compensation can not be obtained,
May lead to a loss,
Results in a significant loss yet.

Immediately after the space shuttle launch
An accident that has exploded and burned, the
In the stage before launch,
Of the booster rocket engineers who
Although I knew the deficiencies of certain parts,
The final decision on launch
Make the upper part, sufficient to the voice of engineers who,
Been launched without listening shine.
Exactly, was a failure to hear.


Also in the medical field,
I hear there is no failure could lead to serious accidents.
Speaking metaphorically, to the patient during surgery
No longer must be administered
The drug name, dose,
Doctors to nurses to instruct orally.
Different listening to it,
Excessive amounts of drugs and the drug should not be administered
Would be administered.
Happens, that could become life-threatening situation of the patient.
This accident Ruishi In the field of health care while increasing complexity,
Is going on in reality.

Can hear a variety of rewards.


Listening is so important.

Human use of the word
To communicate.
To talk to people, I have heard people talking about.
Talking, Listening,
In this communication are two
Is essential to take both,
Of this talk, the conversation of everyone everyday,
Also, such as speeches and presentations,
And want to be able to speak much better,
I think that there is a thing I thought.
However, much better to talk of human
And want to be able to hear
What I thought would be there?
If you think you have if,
You belong to a minority,
Most people without a lot,
That's not unthinkable
Even people that not a few.
Whereas the word "narrative"
Also seen that there is no word "聞術".


This is for listening
Have resulted from a misunderstanding.
It can easily, such as listening,
Have misunderstood,
Much better than normally possible
Is a complex act.
To hear in order to work properly,
Becomes necessary skills,
Training efforts and still,
The first time through the device
It belongs wearable.

Now, in place to hear all over
Has been neglected,
To that end, the quality of communication
Has fallen into a state of degradation.
In order to overcome such situation,
Must take care to hear more.


Can hear a variety of rewards.

And "reward" in this section,
Not only monetary rewards,
As a result when you do something
A positive value to be brought as
Points to something that has widely.
1, sales grow
In that respect to the sale of such services,
The most important thing is to know what customers are seeking.
To do that, all you need
Can listen to the voice of the customer.
Can be a proper understanding of customer needs,
Be able to provide what was in it.
Properly be heard talking about customers,
Lead to a rise in sales compensation.


2, to expand information base
Information and knowledge which they have,
Be carried out effectively that the listening,
This is to expand it.
Be new, from the mouth was opened head (mind) "
Try came in the "not
This is, from speaking, the
To obtain new information can not be.
New information, the story of other people
Be acquired by listening.
Increase the information base to enrich their own
You can go to.

2012年5月14日月曜日

Not a lack Kominikeshon Importance to hear of it.

Needs to hear that you want to extend the power is increasing.
It was said previously the importance of presentation speak well,
Communication has a partner,
Because what it comes to straight-up to understand the opponent,
The importance of listening it would have been reviewed.

Hear that,
Although it is the foundation of communication,
More difficult than speaking.
Not only work, keep the ties of husband and wife at home
What are you working is important that.

Is a good listener, or have a way to hear what is usually their own,
That's important to be aware of that.
Is "listening habit" of their own,
Is that we just have to improve it.
Technology is to hear, that there is a point in three ways.

1, shown in the reaction that you have heard
Sensitive to the speaker that the listener's attitude.
Once you have folded his arms or turning a blind eye partner,
It would be hard to do, if Crelle nod towards here,
Words come out smoothly.
Is that "raise the speaker is the listener's reaction."
② to comeback in the words
Precise as they come back reaction,
Is that story that bounces.
To do so, increase the concentration,
Interested-interested in the contents of the story,
It is necessary to accurately hear.
③ to empathy to other's feelings
Trapped not only the contents of the story,
Awareness towards the movement of the opponent's emotion
Listening is important.
Once you have the same experience as his opponent,
Changing the position and to imagine, easy to sympathize.


Also vary a little story.
That there is only a theory "nod".
This person is not only just words,
Share the rhythm by the body, such as gestures and hand gesture,
Have a smooth communication,
It seems the idea.
Sense of unity is born in one nod,
I think that they can catch the opponent's.
The important thing when you're listening to the story,
You can tell the other party "As far as I know well the story",
Nod and nod, is it the best way.
Nod also, rather than one pattern,
"Yes, yes, well, phooey, ー your sail,
Oh, well, I see, and ... "So,
And have a lot of drawers,
Spread without becoming monotonous conversation.
Observe the state of the opponent,
It's also important to match the tone of voice and facial expressions.
To talk slowly and slowly,
If the corresponding facial expression sad sad.
Like a mirror, his facial expression to match the opponent's face,
Be adjusted to the opponent's breathing,
Which lead to good communication.

<I think the people who polish the sensibility,
I think if there is a power and hear it. >
Also said to "hear",
This is the one that if a lot.
By time and place and situation,
How to listen is slightly different, but will come,
Basically, a secure connection with the opponent to confront,
Listening compassionately is as important.
People is not only words,
Read more than just words and tone of voice and facial expressions of the other
Is as important (hear) also.